The Honey Hive: Lesson 4. Make things happen. Do it.

When you say “I really should exercise more often”, “I should network more”, “ I should take Spanish classes to improve my résumé “ “I really should be doing smth” the unspoken followup sentence is “but I don’t.” 

Doing this reinforces the negative because we are talking about things we wish we were doing, but aren’t. 

So, the “shoulds” are those things we think we must do, but don’t really want to do. All these “shoulds” are weighing you down and keeping you from getting on with the really interesting stuff in your life. I’m sure you could make up a nice little list of shoulds right now …

The word “should” is a common fixture in our daily vocabulary. But it’s a word that does more harm than good. And one that I think should (oops!) be eliminated from our vocabulary.

SO let’s go straight to practise! What we are going to do now is to prioritise our objectives and to delete “should” from our minds when procrastinating. 

1. take a sheet of paper and write 10 things that are really important for you and that you would like to achieve towards 2017

2. Analyse every main point in the following way:

-do I really want this? (yes or no question)

-Am I doing it because of someone else’s pressure (society, boss,family,etc…) (yes or no question)

-is this my first time trying to achieve this goal?(yes or no question)

-will the path that will take me towards that specific goal lead me to success, and will I enjoy the journey? (yes or no question)

if you answered NO to any of the questions asked about your goal, erase it from your lest and keep only those which you answered YES to everything.

3. read the list again with your final objectives. Visualise how you will feel once you achieve it. describe it with detail.

4.Write down some concrete actions to define the way towards your goals.

Make things happen. Be the responsible one for your life. 

General information: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-how-to-reach-your-goals-at-work-and-in-life

How the course works: https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-how-to-reach-your-goals-at-work-and-in-life-how-the-course-works

Lesson 1. Part 1.https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-1-dream-big-or-how-to-attract-what-you-wish-for-part-1

Lesson 1. Part 2. Motivational Speech. https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-how-to-discover-your-talents-anna-s-talk

Lesson 2. Wheel of Life. https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-2-wheel-of-life-dream-big-or-how-to-attract-what-you-wish-for-part-2

Lesson 2. Balance and imbalance. Motivational Reading. https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-2-balance-and-imbalance-motivational-reading

Lesson 3. What do you expect and want from life? https://www.bebee.com/producer/@anna-valadzko/the-honey-hive-lesson-3-what-do-you-expect-and-want-from-life